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Continue reading ā: Youāre not uncomfortable enoughBefore I even get to the point, I’d like to say that this entire post is written with compassion and love. I’m not minimizing anyone’s experiences or taking any gratification from them. I’ve been in situations like this many times myself and I’m sure I will in the future, because…
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Continue reading ā: Thinking two steps aheadThanks to a specific paid job I once had, thinking two steps ahead is ingrained in me today. Because at that job I had to think several steps ahead every day. I guess it can be compared to a game of chess. What I notice very often is people’s attitude…
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Continue reading ā: Great person, cool person, but not my personIn previous years, when I dated many different men over time, at one point I came up with a sentence like āBeautiful man, great man, but not my manā. Meaning? There doesnāt have to be anything wrong with a person, a person doesnāt have to be a bad person, but…
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Continue reading ā: Everything that shines isn’t goldIn Estonian, there is an expression: āKƵik mis hiilgab pole kuld,ā which means āEverything that shines isnāt gold.ā More than 10 years ago, I urgently needed a new job because I had just left one for health reasons. At that time, a local grocery store with a prestigious reputation in…
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Continue reading ā: Helping people and boundariesIt’s a post about setting boundaries, friendship, domestic violence, and helping people in general. I was inspired to write this post by this Instagram video. I don’t remember exactly when I started to express it, but my desire has always been to help people. I remember when I was a…
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Continue reading ā: Let’s make artA few weeks ago I thought that I haven’t done anything freehand “to splash” in a long time.My drawings have been more with a brush or pencil in recent years and in a “everything has to be perfect” style. So I grabbed my acrylic paints and started painting with my…
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Continue reading ā: Enough is enoughThis is one big messy post, but if you read to the end, you’ll understand why I talked about so many different topics and how they’re all connected.It’s a post about manipulation, assertiveness, standards, the inner child, authentic self-expression, and being overweight. I think it’s like a little gossip-style (gossip…
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Continue reading ā: Me!? A toxic person? Nah! Naaah! What are you talking about!?For the past couple of years, I thought that if I cut myself off from the news. Cut off all relationships and interactions that don’t support me, where I’ve been hurt (this includes different relationships- work, friendship, love), then I’ll be especially positive. If there are no people who can hurt…
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Continue reading ā: Nobody cares. No, really! Nobody cares! Do what matters to YOUI wrote a post here the other day titled āBeing saltyā. I actually knew what feelings were behind the action of this post, but I needed to write it out.So I wrote there, half-filled with anger. By the end of the post, my head hurt.Because I had written the anger…
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Continue reading ā: Let’s talk about extremesWhat is extreme and do we need it in our lives? I’ve mentioned here and there how no extreme is good. No extreme temperatures – only hot, only cold.No extreme diets – undereating or overeating. Specifically, only excessive consumption of any food.Excessive giving of yourself to someone else, whether in…


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