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Continue reading →: Great person, cool person, but not my personIn previous years, when I dated many different men over time, at one point I came up with a sentence like “Beautiful man, great man, but not my man”. Meaning? There doesn’t have to be anything wrong with a person, a person doesn’t have to be a bad person, but…
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Continue reading →: Everything that shines isn’t goldIn Estonian, there is an expression: “Kõik mis hiilgab pole kuld,” which means “Everything that shines isn’t gold.” More than 10 years ago, I urgently needed a new job because I had just left one for health reasons. At that time, a local grocery store with a prestigious reputation in…
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Continue reading →: Helping people and boundariesIt’s a post about setting boundaries, friendship, domestic violence, and helping people in general. I was inspired to write this post by this Instagram video. I don’t remember exactly when I started to express it, but my desire has always been to help people. I remember when I was a…
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Continue reading →: Let’s make artA few weeks ago I thought that I haven’t done anything freehand “to splash” in a long time.My drawings have been more with a brush or pencil in recent years and in a “everything has to be perfect” style. So I grabbed my acrylic paints and started painting with my…
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Continue reading →: Enough is enoughThis is one big messy post, but if you read to the end, you’ll understand why I talked about so many different topics and how they’re all connected.It’s a post about manipulation, assertiveness, standards, the inner child, authentic self-expression, and being overweight. I think it’s like a little gossip-style (gossip…
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Continue reading →: Me!? A toxic person? Nah! Naaah! What are you talking about!?For the past couple of years, I thought that if I cut myself off from the news. Cut off all relationships and interactions that don’t support me, where I’ve been hurt (this includes different relationships- work, friendship, love), then I’ll be especially positive. If there are no people who can hurt…
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Continue reading →: Nobody cares. No, really! Nobody cares! Do what matters to YOUI wrote a post here the other day titled “Being salty”. I actually knew what feelings were behind the action of this post, but I needed to write it out.So I wrote there, half-filled with anger. By the end of the post, my head hurt.Because I had written the anger…
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Continue reading →: Let’s talk about extremesWhat is extreme and do we need it in our lives? I’ve mentioned here and there how no extreme is good. No extreme temperatures – only hot, only cold.No extreme diets – undereating or overeating. Specifically, only excessive consumption of any food.Excessive giving of yourself to someone else, whether in…
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Continue reading →: Could we please have more of an “I am special” moment in life, or do we have to collectively go through everything together?The title and the idea behind the following story are written with humor/sarcasm. Over the past few years, I have seen comments here and there: “It’s nice to know that I don’t have any unique moments or traumas, but many people are going through the same things.” These comments have…









